Marriage means you become a slave to your job.
Financial stability is the main thing women look for in a man. (If you don't believe it, tell your wife or fiancée that you are going to leave your high-paying job and travel for a few years to help you discover yourself. See how fast she'll dump you).
Raising a family in the US is getting to be ridiculously expensive. Mortgage is $2-4K/month, supporting wife and children is another $2-4K/month. Getting married means that you are committing yourself to 30 years of slavery where your main purpose is to bring home a large paycheck.
We had one kid. Wife stays home, but the kid wears her out. I bust my fucking ASS 60 hrs/week and get no credit. Wife gives me guilt when I don't throw everything down right after work to watch this screaming, annoying fucking kid so she can go out to the gym, or to some restaurant with her friends, or to her sister's house to watch movies.She gets to take naps during the day when the baby sleeps, and every time I call her on the cell during the day, she is at Starbucks with her Mom or friends. She says that doesn't count as "Her time" because she's with the baby.
I've had enough. I feel so undervalued and OWNED. She is so 'entitled' now it's like 60 (or 70, or 80) hours a week from me is EXPECTED. Being at work from 8-7 counts as my 'social' time, so I am not allowed to have any friends or ever do ANYTHING outside of change FUCKING DIAPERS.
Men are realizing that all the career chasing and overtime they did gave their wives the nice house, new kitchen, big SUV, etc, so she's happy, but left them empty with no satisfaction in life -- just the dreary slavery of the worker drone. Hopefully, they eventually find something that gives their life real meaning, rather than being mere wallets for their parasitic wives who have built nice comfy lives off of their husband's drudgery.
I'm Living the American Dream and Hating Every Minute of It.I'm a 38 y/o male who is married to a beautiful woman and have 1 kid with 1 more on the way. we have what many consider to be the ideal life. Nice house, good jobs, SUV and a overall nice lifestyle. Problem is I hate my life. I feel trapped and destined to live the life of a corporate warrior and familyman when I really long for something else. I've been married for 9 years now and while I love my wife, I feel that I need more space and to be honest long for some variety.
I wish I could walk away from it all.
We have the mortgage and a small amount on the SUV. The problem isn't money and my wife worked and saved money.I just feel so trapped. I would love to be free again and be able to just get up and do something on a whim. I would love to go out and have a wild fling with a new and exciting woman.
Like other have said I fell for the notion of going to college, getting a good job, finding a wife and raising a family. I feel it is all a big lie and I was dumb enough to fall for it.
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