Rachel's (18yo woman) "Perfect Guy" Qualities List.
Rachel at 28yo list
Rachel is a real girl. The list was taken from her website. Rachel is a typical young American woman. Keep in mind that she expects everything on the list simply because she has vagina.
- 5'8” and taller
- Dark brown hair with brown eyes/blue eyes
- Handsome
- Muscular
- Weight depending on height – not skinny, not fat
- Good sense of humor
- Dimples
- Cute laugh
- Sensitive
- *Affectionate* in front of friends
- Gives me lots of attention
- Outgoing
- Popular but doesn't know the whole state
- Friends with my friends
- Nice smile
- Straight teeth
- No facial or body hair (except legs n under arms)
- Pierced ear(s) if any
- Not too many tattoos if any
- Likes to cuddle
- Likes to party
- Takes me out
- Grabs my hand to hold
- Kisses me unexpectedly
- Dresses nice (*ABERCROMBIE*) hehe
- Has a good job
- Tells me he misses me when we're not together
- Makes me laugh
- Open minded
- Polite
- Holds doors for me
- Opens car doors
- *Romantic*
- Likes all type of music
- Likes going to the movies
- Talks to his friends about me
- Looks into my eyes when just laying there on the bed
- Gives massages without me having to ask
- Plays with my hair
- Calls me to just say hi
- Tries not to argue
- Apologizes for when he does wrong
- Says what he's feeling
- Has a car
- Has a dog
- Has a family that likes me
- Compliments me
- Is tan
- Doesn't curse all the time
- Wants to be with me as much as possible
- Comes over unexpectedly
- Wakes me up with a kiss
- Same age or 3 years at the most older than me
- *Trustworthy*
- Patient
- Likes to shop
- Has good manners
- Doesn't smoke
- Occasionally drinks
- Athletic
- Is on time for dates
- Calls back later when he says he will
- Lives close to me
- Wants to meet my family
- Treats me like a princess
- Has a cute butt
- Good kissable lips
- Good kisser
- Good memory
- Does special things for holidays/birthdays/anniversary/etc
- Intelligent
- Has direction
- Creative
- Likes everything about me
- Committed
- *My best friend*
- Respectful
- Mature
- Persistent – Hard working
- Likes walks on the beach
- Likes just staying home sometimes
- Writes me songs/poems
- Likes to dance
- Has a sexy voice
- Cooks for me
- Likes to show me off
- Calls me or introduces me as his "girlfriend" not "Rachel"
- Likes to take pictures
- Flirts with me in public and in private
- Puts up with my mood swings
- Comforts me when I'm sad
- Doesn't say “sorry” all the time when it's not needed
- Sticks up for me
- Likes animals
- Sends me flowers for no reason
- Ignores my imperfections
- Surprises me (good surprises)
- Doesn't ever yell at me
- Likes picnics
- Likes to clean
- First to say I Love You
- Listens to me
- Smells good
- *Doesn't lie*
- Likes kids
- Makes me the center of his world
- Not in trouble with the law
- Isn't a goody-goody
- Doesn't stare at other girls
- Doesn't talk to other girls more than me
- Doodles our names on paper
- Likes to draw
- Leaves notes on my car
- Let's me go out with him and his friends
- Will hang out with me and my friends
- Puts pictures of me in his car and wallet
- Gets jealous but not too jealous
- Dependable
- Doesn't hang up on me
- Calls me babe, sweetie, etc
- Calls me cute pet names
- Isn't conceited
- Isn't a penny-pincher
- Likes sports and going to sports events
- Likes to play board games/video games and lets me win
- Doesn't play mind games
- Doesn't just think about sex
- Cares about world issues
- Doesn't make me cry
- Leaves sweet voicemails/text messages on my phone
- Isn't shy
- Has hopes, dreams, and wishes
- Not opinionated
- Will watch chick flicks even if he doesn't like them
- Can spell
Here is a typical 28yo American woman's personals ad. Interestingly, the only things she says about herself is that she is lazy, bitchy, ugly, and does not like giving blowjobs.
This is my ideal guy:
- He has talent I can respect. Either he is a great artist or a musician with his own style or otherwise great at some craft. His talent doesn't follow the herd.
- If he is not artistic than at least he enjoys the arts, music and books. If he has an interest in anything beyond mindless pop culture, video games and TV, that would be ideal. Not that any of that is too bad, but there is just so much more to life.
- He has goals, not dreams. He strategizes on how he can realize his goals in light of whatever life has handed him as his fate.
- He is an animal lover and has compassion for people.
- He is financially solvent. He doesn't spend money he doesn't have and doesn't try to buy a woman's affection. He plans his livestyle to be uncomplicated and has common sense in regards to what is a wise investment or not.
- He is not selfish and self-centered.
- He likes his mom and female siblings and is nice to them.
- He takes care of his emotional health as well as being conscious of his physical health.
- He lives to travel and be spontaneous.
- He is a one woman guy. He is not constantly searching for new ass. He's not an oral freak and wants to be with a girl who isn't into it either. He likes touching, kissing, giving and receiving massages. He knows where tha g-spot is.
- He likes an independent lady who has her own interests, goals, and ideas and is supportive of her reaching them, as opposed to competing with her or taking no interest.
- He wants to have a child. Not immediately, but he does see that in his future. He doesn't currently have any.
- He's never been told by a girlfriend that he needs professional psychological help. If he has, he has gotten it and its been at least 5 years since he's gotten better.
- He would rather do the right thing than try to get away with something.
- He was not raised catholic.
- He can cook and do his own laundry and doesn't expect his girlfriend to do it.
- He believes in karma.
- He listens to his inner voice and doesn't deny his real feelings. He can discuss issues and conflicts civily, even though a complete resolution may not come about.
- He is not looking for a super model, but a real, normal person.
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